Friday, February 27, 2009
posted at 1:43 PM
When friends drift apart, they may start to say '
there's no common interest between us anymore', 'we are not in the same school', 'no time to meet up', 'its not my fault, its hers!', ...
but think about it, is it all these that may you drift apart? its you. come on face it, its really you and stop blaming other things and everyone else other than yourself.
Then why dont you start tell me, you broke up with your boyfriend because there's no common "
interest between us anymore, we are not in the same school, there's no time to meet up, its not my fault, its his!" ?!!
lol, come on, why did you even get together with him?
because you both had same the same interest, same school, had plenty of time to meet up?
damn, dont lie.
well, the reason why you two got together in the first place was before you
both loved each other.
so i believe that, no matter how you and your friends have no common interest and common ground, how you all may not be in the same school, how much you dont meet your friends ...
as long as you have a genuine friendship and love for them, your friendship and sisterhood will still be there.its just that
have you made that effort, did you hurt that too much to savage the friendship, have you left too much unsaid?all i want to tell you today is, please stop hurting and bothering her.
i am only saying this because i'm her friend, her good sister.
we are not in the same school, we dont have common interest, but we always make time to meet up though how busy we get, and i can say that we have that bond and love among us.
please, think about what you have done, your little actions that hurt my friend.
you killed your own friendship many times but my friend just wanted to give you chances then and again.
please stop hurting her, stop lying to her. you should do some serious self-reflection soon.
and i'm not going to just sit here and watch you hurt her anymore.
i mean it.
i will be really mean ..
i dont care if you eventually will read this, or eventually know who you are, or curse me under your breath.
because
standing up for her is more than this.
i'll always be there for you, wife.